Weaponized incompetence: Is this subtle manipulation tactic hurting your relationship? by Alisa Hrustic | May 16, 2025 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Picture a couple who just moved in together: Let’s call them Dan and Amy. Amy has been working late because she has a big presentation coming up. One evening, she texts Dan and asks him to make dinner while she’s on her way home. Dan enthusiastically agrees, sending multiple heart…
The relationship advice therapists give their clients on repeat—and why it works by Hannah DeWitt | Apr 28, 2025 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships No matter how “perfectly matched” you are, no two people are exactly the same. We all bring our own unique wants, needs, and beliefs into a relationship. That’s a good thing—our differences are what make relationships exciting and meaningful. But it also means figuring out how to truly care for…
I’m worried my partner is depressed but won’t talk about it. What should I do? by Kate Hanselman, PMHNP-BC | Apr 21, 2025 | Ask a Therapist, Depression, Mental Health Topics I want to start by acknowledging how tough this situation is. Depression is hard not just for the person experiencing it, but also for their partner and the relationship. I’m sure a lot of people can relate to what you’re going through. First, kudos to you for noticing that your…
My partner won’t go to couples therapy. Is that a dealbreaker? by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Mar 31, 2025 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships This is a common question, as many people feel uncertain about couples therapy. Is it a dealbreaker? The answer isn’t always straightforward. While refusing to attend couples therapy can be a red flag, it doesn’t always mean the relationship is doomed. Every couple’s situation is unique, and there are other…
What do I do about a friend who takes advantage of my generosity? by Valerie Proctor Greene, LICSW | Oct 10, 2023 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Q: I have a friend who always borrows money but never pays me back. He tells me I’m wrong and am being selfish, but I am tired of lending. A: Hi there, I am sorry to hear you are having a difficult time with this friend. The first word that…
How can I better deal with conflict or issues with my wife that make me uncomfortable? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT | Jun 28, 2022 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Q: I’m looking for more information specifically strategies for dealing with avoidance with my wife when dealing with conflict, disagreements, or issues that make me uncomfortable. When in those moments I have a tendency to freeze up and we are expecting a child, our due date was Friday the 24th….
Why men tend to confess their love first and tips on when to say, “I love you” by Jason Crosby | Apr 29, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Men are often stereotyped as unemotional, cold, or even scared of commitment when it comes to settling down in romantic relationships. But science seems to indicate otherwise; recent results from a study published this year found that across three different continents and multiple cultures, men tend to profess their love…
Online Counseling Question: How do I stop being jealous and insecure in my relationship? (Video) by Taylor Bennett | May 4, 2020 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Click here to schedule online counseling at Thriveworks. Hi, my name is Dr. Sheila Campbell and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor with Thriveworks in Decatur, Georgia. Thank you for this opportunity to answer a question posed by a community member. The question that I’m answering today is, “How do I…
5 signs your relationship is beyond repair, according to mental health professionals by Taylor Bennett | Nov 28, 2017 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Love—perhaps the single most wonderful, yet complicated thing life has to offer us. We all hope to fill that gaping void; to discover that missing puzzle piece; to find that special someone to walk through life with. And when we do, we’re elated—we rejoice in the love and the happiness…