Therapy for couples: Improving communication and resolving conflicts by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Feb 14, 2025 | Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Romantic relationships can be a wonderful part of life, but they aren’t without their complications. Throughout a relationship, a variety of emotions can come up — from profound happiness and elation to deep despair and anger, and everything in between. The key to creating a healthy and happy relationship is…
“I have no desire for my husband”: What to do when you drift apart from your spouse by Christine Ridley, LCSW | Nov 13, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Relationships offer many rewards—support, love, acceptance, belonging, companionship, and understanding. However, they also come with challenges. As time goes on, people change, and it can be hard to adjust to these changes, whether in your partner or yourself. You might even find that you’re no longer attracted to your husband…
Why is it so hard to express my feelings? by Sarah Barness | Oct 14, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Why is it so hard to express your feelings? If you have ever found yourself unable to put your emotions into words, you’re not alone. Expressing feelings can seem daunting, whether it’s because of fear, discomfort with vulnerability, or not knowing how to articulate complex emotions. Many of us struggle…
Words of encouragement for someone with a mental illness: 8 helpful things to say by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT | Sep 19, 2024 | Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Topics, Relationships There may come a time when someone with a mental illness — like depression, anxiety, or PTSD — needs your help. While mental health conditions require proper treatment from a mental health professional like a counselor or psychiatrist, you can provide help in the form of comfort, reassurance, and support….
Understanding attachment styles and their impact on relationships by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Jul 12, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Attachment styles are emotional bonding patterns originating from early interactions and relationships with primary caregivers. Though these patterns are not always readily noticeable, they can significantly influence adult relationships by shaping expectations and behaviors toward intimacy, connection, and dependency. Everyone has an attachment style—some are healthy and secure, while others…
What are “mommy issues,” and how can they be resolved? by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | May 8, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, Parenting Parent-child relationships aren’t always easy to navigate, and they can become fraught with tension when past conflict goes unresolved. When someone has issues with their mother, it can be difficult to know how to change things. When managing conflict in any relationship including with one’s mother, it’s important to prioritize…
Marriage advice needed: How do I restore my marriage and reconnect with my husband? by Valerie Proctor Greene, LICSW | Apr 1, 2024 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics Q: Marriage advice needed My marriage of over 20 years is in deep trouble. How do you reconnect with someone you have ZERO intimacy with or seem to have no meaningful relationship with? We go through day-to-day life like we are roommates. We rarely have difficult conversations about our relationship….
What is an emotional affair? by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Mar 1, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Romantic partnerships thrive on trust, intimacy, and honesty. When something starts to infringe on or inhibit that in a relationship, it can threaten its well-being. Though physically cheating is one of the most talked about ways that such trust gets broken, emotional affairs should also be taken into account. An…
Navigating relationship PTSD: Tips for healing by Alexandra Cromer, LPC | Feb 23, 2024 | Mental Health Topics, PTSD, Relationships An abusive relationship can consist of several traumatic events, which can cause these symptoms to stay present during the relationship as well as long after the relationship has ended. In the first month following a traumatic experience, if these symptoms are present, it is considered to be an acute stress…
Petulant borderline personality disorder (BPD): Signs, causes, treatment options, and more by Alexandra Cromer, LPC | Sep 10, 2023 | Disorders, Mental Health Topics, Personality Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a complex and multifaceted mental health condition known for its diverse symptoms. While it affects individuals differently, a subset of BPD patients exhibit distinctive behavior patterns characteristic of what is commonly referred to as “petulant BPD.” This variant presents a unique challenge for both clinicians…
How to gain someone’s trust back: Manageable steps for rebuilding security and stability in relationships by Christine Ridley, LCSW | Jul 27, 2023 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships To make mistakes is to be human—but when our actions result in us hurting someone we’re close to, it’s possible to lose their trust. And odds are, if you’re reading this, you’ve either lost someone’s trust, or are searching for ways to forgive someone for something they’ve done to you….
Habitual lying: What does it look like and what are its causes? by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Jul 27, 2023 | Behavioral Issues, Communication, Mental Health Topics, Psychology Everyone lies from time to time. Whether it’s to get out of work or spare someone’s feelings, lying every once in a while is normal and common. However, when someone lies frequently, they are known as a habitual liar. Lying often is harmful, and can even be a sign of…