Relationship problems: A guide for understanding and navigating them properly by Taylor Bennett | May 24, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Let’s get straight to the point: Relationships are hard work. Despite how much love there is between two people, conflict can and will arise. The true test is how we navigate these relationship problems with our partners. And whether we come out the other side together. This guide answers some…
When friendships change: How to maintain friendships in adulthood by Taylor Bennett | May 16, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships As we get older, many things change: our appearance, our interests, our goals, our routines, and our relationships. I’ve found the latter to be especially true. Sure, my hair’s grown, I now enjoy camping, I’m no longer pressed to lose weight, and I actually go to bed at a decent…
Divorce: A handbook for couples and exes by Wistar Murray | May 16, 2022 | Family, Mental Health Topics, Relationships The choice between getting divorced or staying together may be one of the hardest decisions you ever have to make. It’s a critical crossroads where you may see your life heading in two different directions. What kind of future do you want? How do you make an informed decision about…
Third-wheeling: Being single when your friends are in a relationship by Jason Crosby | May 13, 2022 | Coping Skills, Mental Health Topics, Relationships The front door open for the last time that night, my friends standing on the front porch, arm in arm, waving goodbye, their silhouettes shimmering against the half-moon behind them. Just beyond, I see another set of friends (another couple) climb into their car, as the cabin light illuminates the…
The pros and cons of a starter marriage by Wistar Murray | May 12, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships What is a starter marriage? Well, obviously it’s the beautiful union between a starter wife or a starter husband and their starter spouse. Gorgeous wedding, all the gifts, no children, and they’re divorced within five years. These kinds of marriages have also been called entry-level marriages, icebreaker marriages, warm-up marriages,…
Thriveworks research: Nearly 20% of Americans report differing views have negatively impacted a relationship with a coworker by Jason Crosby | May 9, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Research, Work & Careers Professional work environments are often viewed as a neutral zone where employees do their best to keep their personal lives private and opinions to themselves. However, recent Thriveworks research reveals that a large number of Americans report experiencing tension in the workplace due to clashing beliefs about some of the…
Why men tend to confess their love first and tips on when to say, “I love you” by Jason Crosby | Apr 29, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Men are often stereotyped as unemotional, cold, or even scared of commitment when it comes to settling down in romantic relationships. But science seems to indicate otherwise; recent results from a study published this year found that across three different continents and multiple cultures, men tend to profess their love…
Dry dating: How to navigate first dates without alcohol by Wistar Murray | Apr 26, 2022 | Alcohol & Drugs, Mental Health Topics, Relationships In my experience, online dating in NYC was mostly a matter of meeting at the right bar. The bar couldn’t be your local. You wanted to keep your local to yourself in case the date went sour. But the bar couldn’t be far away either because you didn’t want to…
Generational differences: Stepping outside of our personal experiences and tolerating opposing views by Jason Crosby | Apr 20, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Self-Improvement In the 1960s, “don’t trust anyone over the age of 30” was a common phrase among young people as they clashed with their elders. Social upheavals, gender role-bending, and even global violence were visceral themes that influenced politics, educational systems, fashion, music, film, and more. Every step toward the new…
There is no trust in my relationship — can we still make it work? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT | Apr 19, 2022 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Q: I went through my boyfriend’s phone. All the girls he talked to while we were together are saved in his phone and social media, so while he was sleeping I deleted and blocked those girls. He got mad at me because he’s saying that I am trying to entrap…
Making friends at work: 6 simple dos and don’ts to help you maintain professional bonds and boundaries by Jason Crosby | Apr 15, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Work & Careers I’m guessing you have at least two people at your current workplace with whom you’re close. Okay, maybe not close enough to ask them to cat-sit this weekend but close enough that you feel comfortable sharing some details of your life outside of work. They might know your favorite sports…
Why are men and women with dark personality traits more likely to cheat on their partners? by Jason Crosby | Apr 7, 2022 | Mental Health Topics, Personality, Relationships Few scandals are able to hurt a romantic partner more than infidelity. In most relationships, monogamy is not only an unspoken rule, it’s a requirement; without it, monogamous relationships just couldn’t exist. For some, this means forgoing monogamy, while some remain faithfully committed to the sole person of their choice….