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I believe healing is a personal journey of self-discovery — a return to the innate worth, wholeness, and strength we each carry wi...
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I believe healing is a personal journey of self-discovery — a return to the innate worth, wholeness, and strength we each carry within us.
Alexis Cohen is a Resident Licensed Mental Health Counselor with 2 years of experience. She specializes in working with adults experiencing challenges and transitions in their work, home, relational, and personal lives. Alexis has worked with individuals with trauma-related disorders, anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, attachment disorders, and stress-related disorders. Alexis enjoys working with clients curious about the underlying reasons for their emotions, feelings, behaviors, and intrapsychic experiences, and desiring increased intimacy with themselves and others.
Alexis has a Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Lesley University. She uses holistic, body-oriented, and spiritual approaches combined with evidence-based practices including person-centered therapy, mindfulness therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, and acceptance and commitment therapy.
Alexis is a relational and strengths-based counselor who strives to empower clients to trust that they are the experts on themselves. She is here to be a warm, compassionate, and encouraging companion on your journey toward healing, self-exploration, and growth. Schedule an appointment today!
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As a multi-cultural counselor, I recognize the importance of respecting cultural, sexual, and gender diversity....
As a multi-cultural counselor, I recognize the importance of respecting cultural, sexual, and gender diversity.
Jasmin Ketabi is seeking her Licensure in Mental Health Counseling and has 4 years of experience in the mental health field. She is passionate about helping adolescents and adults to achieve their potential and live more fulfilled lives. Jasmin emphasizes the importance of tailoring her therapeutic interventions to meet the specific needs of her client.
Jasmin values each client’s cultural background and utilizes motivational interviewing, solution-focused modalities, and cognitive behavioral modalities. As a clinician, she respects clients' points of view and belief systems.
Jasmin believes that the essential element of working with a different range of clients is building rapport and a therapeutic alliance. Collaboratively and without judgment, she can help you understand yourself, your fears, and your needs so that your thoughts and emotional experiences don’t overwhelm you.
As a woman who has experienced generational family conflict, personal trauma, and profound loss, I understand both the pain that l...
As a woman who has experienced generational family conflict, personal trauma, and profound loss, I understand both the pain that life can bring and the joy that healing offers to those who seek it and to everyone it touches.
I am a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with 29 years of experience supporting individuals through life’s challenges. Over the years, I have worked with clients facing depression, anxiety, trauma, and life transitions, helping them rediscover balance and meaning. My approach emphasizes compassion, collaboration, and empowerment as I guide clients toward emotional healing, resilience, and growth. My focus is on helping clients identify patterns, strengthen coping strategies, and build self-awareness that fosters confidence in navigating life’s complexities.
I earned my Master’s in Social Work from Salem State College and have dedicated my career to creating safe, inclusive spaces where clients feel heard and understood. I draw from evidence-based practices, including cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and solution-focused techniques to support lasting change.
Taking the first step toward therapy is an act of courage, and I honor that bravery. I am committed to providing a warm, nonjudgmental environment where you can feel supported in your journey toward healing. Together, we will explore your goals, uncover your strengths, and create a plan for meaningful progress.
I firmly believe that everyone deserves to be heard, understood, and supported....
I firmly believe that everyone deserves to be heard, understood, and supported.
Tianyi Zhang is an MA-level clinician seeking her LMHC with 3 years of counseling experience in outpatient settings. She has worked with a diverse population, including adolescents, college students, young professionals, older adults, and couples. Tianyi has assisted individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, adjustment issues, cross-cultural adaptation, communication challenges, PTSD, and more. As a first-generation immigrant, Tianyi understands the challenges of culture shock and navigating confusion, loneliness, and lost connections in a new environment. She is fluent in both Mandarin Chinese and English.
Tianyi earned her Master of Arts in Mental Health Counseling at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. She uses evidence-based therapeutic modalities, such as cognitive behavioral, dialectical behavioral, solution-focused, and psychodynamic therapies. Fundamental to her approach is embracing clients for who they are and offering them unconditional acceptance.
Tianyi values an open and honest therapist-client relationship and recognizes the uniqueness and worth of each of her clients. Life can present various challenges, and it's important to know that you are not alone during these difficult times. Tianyi is dedicated to guiding and supporting you on your journey towards healing.
As a young woman who has allowed self-esteem, confidence, and anxiety to get in the way of life, I understand how difficult it can...
As a young woman who has allowed self-esteem, confidence, and anxiety to get in the way of life, I understand how difficult it can be to move past these issues and into a place of comfort and confidence.
Sara Phipps is an MA-level clinician working towards her LMHC licensure in Massachusetts. Sara has almost 2 years of experience working as an in-home therapy clinician working with families and children with extensive traumatic backgrounds. She has helped these individuals with oppositional behaviors, depression, anxiety, suicide ideation, trauma, PTSD, anger management, communication, and utilizing coping skills to regulate emotions. She is compassionate, understanding, and willing to work with her client based on their individual needs.
Sara received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a concentration in Forensic Psychology at Southern New Hampshire University and received her Master of Arts in Clinical and Mental Health counseling through Southern New Hampshire University as well.
Sara uses a mix of therapy approaches because she believes that every client is different and that every client should have their own customized treatment. Therapy approaches include cognitive behavioral therapy, solution-focused, person-centered, and mindfulness-based techniques. Sara always maintains a positive approach and keeps her clients' needs and wants in mind.
Sara looks at the importance of building a good and honest relationship between counselor and client. This includes building off the strengths that the client is willing to bring to the table. By incorporating strengths and skills that the client already possesses, Sara and the individual can reach the intended goals.
As both a therapist and yoga teacher, I recognize the substantial impact an individual's childhood, environment, relationships, an...
As both a therapist and yoga teacher, I recognize the substantial impact an individual's childhood, environment, relationships, and psychosocial characteristics have on their mental and physical well-being.
Francesca is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) who has many years of experience. She focuses on anxiety, self-esteem, coping skills, wellness, daily routine and life transitions.
Francesca received her Master's degree in Social Work from Simmons University. Francesca uses a strength-based (SBT), person-centered therapy (PCT), collaborative approach to therapy.
Francesca uses a holistic approach to collaborate with clients, while also highlighting the benefits that physical activity, nature, nutrition, sleep and mindfulness have on our overall well-being. Schedule with her today.
Hi! I am so happy you're here....
Hi! I am so happy you're here.
Rhiannon Leigh is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) with experience working with adolescents and young adults with diverse needs and challenges. Rhiannon has experience working with neurodivergent populations and treating autism spectrum disorder, down syndrome, ADHD, anxiety, and depression. She loves helping individuals build confidence, connections with others, and a positive sense of self. Rhiannon completed her Master of Social Work (MSW) at Simmons University and has experience working in special education at the high school level, which has given her the opportunity to work with diverse populations in a variety of settings.
Rhiannon utilizes multiple treatment approaches including mindfulness, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), motivational interviewing, and solution-focused therapy. Additionally, Rhiannon uses a strength-based approach and finds joy in helping others build confidence by focusing on their abilities—what they can do rather than what they can't.
Rhiannon seeks to create flexible working relationships with clients built upon collaboration, client strengths, and warmth within sessions. Rhiannon currently has telehealth appointments available and is looking forward to connecting with you!
Like you, I hold many identities (i.e. queer, neurodivergent, female, etc) and I recognize that each of your unique identities is ...
Like you, I hold many identities (i.e. queer, neurodivergent, female, etc) and I recognize that each of your unique identities is beautiful, valid, and essential to seeing the world through your eyes.
Celeste Bouchard is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker who sees children, adolescents, adults, and families. Celeste’s clinical background includes working with individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, autism spectrum disorder, ADHD, trauma/abuse/PTSD, stress management, life transitions, and LGBTQ+ populations.
Celeste graduated from Boston College with a Master of Social Work and Trauma Certificate. Celeste has worked in various settings providing school-based services, in-home therapy, clinic/group therapy, and individual outpatient therapy. Celeste utilizes an eclectic range of evidence-based care modalities such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), mindfulness, psychodynamic therapy, and trauma-informed care.
Life can be hard. There is no other way to phrase it. However, it can also be beautiful and result in amazing opportunities for growth. If you are reading this, then that already tells me that you are a resilient individual. Celeste would love to join you on your journey and be an additional support as you continue to grow.
Starting therapy can often be a daunting task; my goal is to provide a comfortable and supportive therapeutic environment in which...
Starting therapy can often be a daunting task; my goal is to provide a comfortable and supportive therapeutic environment in which we can work together to accomplish your goals and improve your quality of life.
Gabrielle Eckler is a Resident in Counseling who specializes in treating depression, anxiety, substance abuse, relationship issues, life transitions, and self-esteem in adults. Gabrielle completed her Bachelor of Arts (BA) with a concentration in Substance Abuse Counseling at Curry College and her master's degree in Mental Health at Boston College. She has spent two internships focused on substance abuse counseling and working with older adults with a focus on health promotion and wellness.
Gabrielle utilizes a collaborative, strength-based, solution-focused, mindfulness-based, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)-focused treatment for anxiety and depression, while maintaining flexibility to best meet the needs of each individual. She seeks to provide a comfortable and supportive therapeutic environment that is client-centered and goal-oriented.
Pinelopi Dovinos is a psychotherapist with a Master’s Degree in Social Work and Certification in Gender and sexuality (queer stu...
Pinelopi Dovinos is a psychotherapist with a Master’s Degree in Social Work and Certification in Gender and sexuality (queer studies) & women’s studies from Florida Atlantic University. She is licensed as an Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) in Massachusetts. Pinelopi views the therapeutic environment as a place where the utmost care should be taken to create a culturally sensitive and non-judgmental safe space. She has extensive experience working with adults struggling with addiction disorders, depression, anxiety, trauma-related issues, PTSD, gender identity, HIV+, LGBTQ+ , low-self esteem, self image, stress management, anger management, couples, bi-polar disorder, coping with life/age transitions, and more. Pinelopi prides herself in using only evidenced based practices; working collaboratively with clients to set measurable and achievable goals.
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Infidelity counseling is a specialized therapeutic approach designed for couples grappling with the aftermath of one or more partner’s infidelity. It offers a nurturing and non-judgmental environment where both individuals can delve into the underlying reasons behind the breach of trust, openly express their feelings, and collaboratively strive to mend their relationship. The overarching objective of infidelity counseling is to either facilitate a path to reconciliation, should both partners desire it, or guide them through the process of separation or divorce with clarity and empathy.
Infidelity counseling combines various therapeutic techniques, such as individual and couples therapy, cognitive behavioral approaches for changing destructive thought patterns, communication skills training for conflict resolution, Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) to rebuild trust, narrative therapy to reframe relationship narratives, and mindfulness practices for managing intense emotions. These methods work together to foster self-awareness, emotional healing, and the reconstruction of trust, leading to a healthier, more resilient relationship.
Infidelity counseling at Thriveworks Lexington, MA is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.
The number of sessions needed for infidelity counseling can greatly vary based on the specific needs of the individuals or couples involved and the complexity of the issues being addressed. Thriveworks infidelity counseling in Lexington, MA typically includes multiple sessions spanning from several weeks to several months, with the exact number of sessions decided in consultation with the therapist while considering the progress made during therapy and the therapeutic goals.
More likely than not, you recognize this song about how one woman reacted to adultery. Have you heard these lyrics?
“I dug my key into the side Of his pretty little souped-up four-wheel drive Carved my name into his leather seats I took a Louisville slugger to both headlights I slashed a hole in all four tires Maybe next time he’ll think before he cheats”
Carrie Underwood belts out these passionate words, and you might even be able to sing along. “Before He Cheats” is one of country music’s most popular songs and for a good reason: it captures the intensity of infidelity. Even people who do not listen to country music like this song because it can be cathartic to sing about taking revenge on a cheater. However, healthier and more helpful reactions are available.
In the fallout from an affair, many people seek the help of a counselor as they try and find those healthier responses. Whether the marriage ends in divorce or whether the couple can reconcile, counseling has helped many people recover from infidelity. The adultery counselors at Thriveworks Counseling in Lexington, MA understand how adultery can leave deep wounds that need extensive treatment. They have journeyed with many couples toward relational healing, whether the marriage survives or not.
The theory of cheating is simple: someone in a devoted relationship broke the rules and expectations for that relationship. Those rules may come in the form of marriage vows. They may be less formal but agreed-upon by both partners. Either way, the reality of infidelity is complicated, painful, and even traumatic. Counselors often classify affairs so that couples can comprehend what happened.
When people are caught in their infidelity, they often give excuses for why they committed adultery. Rationalizations are rarely helpful to either spouse. Choosing to cheat is a painful choice, regardless of the reasons why.
Nonetheless, understanding the framework in which the infidelity happened can give the couple valuable information they need to make difficult decisions about their future. Understanding the root cause of the infidelity can determine the path toward healing.
Counselors speak about two frameworks in which infidelity can grow: a deficiency framework and a circumstantial framework.
1. Deficiency – People may pursue an illicit extramarital relationship because of a deficiency in themselves, in their spouse, or in their marriage/relationship. This is a very personal, internal reason to commit adultery, and the deficiency can be real or perceived.
What does recovery look like in the deficiency framework?
The spouse who committed adultery may need to pursue cognitive behavior therapy to help understand the thought patterns that led to their behavior. Therapy may help these spouses address inaccurate beliefs about themselves, their spouse, or their marriage and empower them to utilize healthy coping strategies.
2. Circumstantial – Certain contexts foster the development of illicit relationships, making the choice to commit adultery easier. One example of a circumstantial framework is the workplace. Many people meet the person they will conduct the affair with at their place of employment.
What does recovery look like in the circumstantial framework?
When an affair is conducted under certain circumstances, recovery may require boundaries and accountability. For example, a couple may want to reconcile after a spouse had a one-night stand while traveling. A Thriveworks in Lexington, MA therapist could help the couple form and agree upon accountability measures that may make one-night stands more difficult for the future, such as always traveling with a friend or business partner.
Of course, many affairs combine these frameworks, but a skilled therapist can help each couple find the path toward recovery that works for them, whether they pursue a divorce or choose to reconcile.
Is your devoted relationship struggling after infidelity? Know that the pain and chaos that comes in the wake of an affair is normal and so is reaching out for help. The counselors at Thriveworks in Lexington, VA understand and are ready to provide professional and compassionate care.
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